Postnatal Depression

Postnatal depression

This affects one in ten mothers and usually sets in two weeks to two years after the birth. It can result in the woman becoming listless and unable to cope with the demands of the home and baby.

Many of the symptoms are similar to those of general depression with the woman becoming emotionally withdrawn and being overwhelmed with feelings of despair, guilt and worthlessness.

Eating and sleeping patterns may alter markedly and the mother may lose interest in everything including the baby and be unable to concentrate or carry out daily tasks.

Stressful events before the birth, a traumatic delivery or low self-esteem may contribute to post-natal depression. The arrival of a new baby and the unavailability of the mother can allow the partner to feel abandoned and unable to trust in the relationship.

Post-natal depression can undermine the couple’s relationship even when the depression is over. It may be helpful to consider couple counselling if the relationship remains under pressure, to get a realistic perspective on the feelings of disappointment and loss that can accompany post-natal depression.

Usually treatment is available through the GP or in the community. In severe cases mother and baby may be treated in hospital - often in specialist mother and baby units where there is help to protect the bond between the two.